Resources
Dr. Regier’s Relationship Articles
Dr. Regier has been a featured Expert writer for Your Tango and PsychCentral. You can find answers to many of your relationship questions in the many blogs listed here.
Attachment and Anger Part III: Taming the Tiger Within
What if you are caught in a cycle of conflict with the person you love and your bad anger is destroying your bond? How do you tame the terrified tiger inside of you? Most intimacy [...]
Attachment and Violent Anger Part II: 4 Dangerous Ways to Express Our Anger
In Attachment and Violent Anger Part I, I talked about how attachment with caregivers in our early-years causes us to form either a positive trusting view of our selves and others or a view that [...]
Tandem Marriage: Being Your Best Self With The Person You Love
What is Tandem Marriage? Merriam Webster defines “tandem” as: a group of two people or things that work together; in partnership or in conjunction. If you have read through some of our previous Tandem Marriage [...]
Attachment and Violent Anger – Part 1: How They Are Connected
How are Attachment and Violent Anger Connected? Understanding the connection between intimacy and anger is important for improving our own relationship, and if you are a therapist like me knowing how to help others. Some [...]
The Beauty of Being You
I woke in the middle of the night in awe of a Facebook video that I experienced: The Beauty of Being You. At three a.m. I had to drag myself out of bed to pen [...]
Love, Respect and Love Languages Did Not Save My Life!
Admittedly I am envious of the fame and fortune of popular Christian books suggesting a better marriage in 5, 7 or 10 steps. Love languages, respect and his and her needs are all pieces of [...]